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Achieving Emotional Literacy
The definitive guide to Steiner's emotional literacy framework, presenting practical methods for understanding, expressing, and responding to emotions with honesty and skill.
Written for: General readers, therapists, educators, and anyone seeking to deepen their emotional awareness and interpersonal skills
Achieving Emotional Literacy is the book that most fully articulates the concept for which Steiner is perhaps best known. Emotional literacy, as he defines it, is the ability to understand your own emotions, to listen to others and empathise with their feelings, and to express emotions productively. It is distinct from emotional intelligence in its emphasis on interpersonal honesty and its roots in TA theory.
Steiner lays out a clear, practical framework built around three core skills: knowing what you feel, developing a heart-centred capacity for empathy, and learning to manage your emotional interactions without resorting to manipulation or power plays. The book is rich with examples drawn from clinical practice and everyday life.
Published in 1997, the book anticipated by several years the broader cultural interest in emotional skills that would follow. It remains essential reading for therapists, educators, and anyone who wants to move beyond surface-level communication towards relationships built on genuine understanding and care.
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